Photo by Afeez Ajibola Yusuf
Now that I’m in my 30s, my approach to fashion has definitely shifted. I’m not trying to dress “older,” but I do want to feel more put together and refined. Gone are the days of loading up on five t-shirts for $20 at Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and Wet Seal—only to have them fall apart after a few washes. Back in my 20s, the idea of wearing the same outfit multiple times felt kind of cringe (because heaven forbid someone actually remembers your outfit). But now? I’m all about building a wardrobe with pieces I actually want to repeat—ones that work effortlessly with the rest of my closet.
These days, I’m drawn to more tailored, neutral pieces that I can mix and match with jewelry, hats, and shoes. Capsule wardrobes are everywhere now, and I finally get why: investing in quality staples makes getting dressed so much easier. If you’ve hit that point where you’re over fast fashion but still want to feel stylish (without looking too mature), you’re in the right place. I’ve put together a list of 15 wardrobe essentials every woman in her 30s should own—pieces that will make getting dressed feel easy, stylish, and totally grown-up (in the best way).
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15 Wardrobe Essentials for Women in Their 30s
1. The Perfect White Button-Down
Everlane
The Must-Have Shirt in Silky Cotton
$88
I used to cringe when someone would recommend a white button-down. Why would I wear a stiff, corporate-looking shirt on a casual day? The problem wasn’t the idea of a white button-down—it was the quality of the ones I’d been buying. Polyester and other cheap fabrics make them feel stiff and uncomfortable, but once I discovered linen and high-quality cotton options, my whole perspective changed. A white button-down made from the right material feels light, breathable, and relaxed—not stuffy. And if you’re not looking to splurge on a high-end one, thrift stores are goldmines for this. Pre-worn button-downs often have that perfect lived-in feel, making them even better. This one I’m linking to is my current favorite—you can tuck it into jeans, wear it open over a crop top and trousers, or layer it under a blazer. It’s one of those pieces that just works.
2. Classic Oversized Blazer
Gap
Brushed Twill Relaxed Blazer
$128.00
I’ve always been a blazer girl—especially after moving to Chicago almost 20 years ago. My friend and I used to hit up Wicker Park and grab every vintage blazer we could find. You could get them boxy with shoulder pads or more tailored—it didn’t matter. A good blazer just makes you feel put together. In 2025, oversized tailored blazers are it. You can throw one over jeans and a sports bra for a casual yet polished vibe or pair it with heels for a night out. And honestly, I love that we live in an era where you can wear a blazer with Adidas Sambas and it just works. This one I’m linking is the perfect blend of structure and ease—trust me, you’ll wear it on repeat.
3. High-Quality Denim
Abercrombie
Curve Love High Rise 90s Relaxed Jean
$90
Remember when skinny jeans were the thing? Yeah, me too. I swore I’d never wear anything but skinny jeans—but now, at 33, girl, toss out those skinny jeans. Wide-leg denim is the move. They’re more forgiving, they skim over your midsection, and they look good with everything from heels to sneakers. If you’ve got a “mom body” or you’re dealing with a little muffin top, wide-leg jeans are a game-changer. My top picks? Abercrombie and Old Navy for affordable, stretchy options, and Good American if you want that premium fit. Wear them with heels for a night out or sneakers for an everyday vibe.
4. Timeless Trench Coat
Amazon
Crop Double Breasted Trench Coat
$65.98
Okay, so here’s the thing about trench coats: If you live somewhere with unpredictable weather (hello, Chicago), a lightweight trench coat is tricky because it’s either too hot or too cold. But I recently bought one from Amazon, and I’m so glad I did. When I wear my puffer coat, I feel practical—but when I wear my trench coat, I feel chic. A black or tan trench coat elevates any outfit instantly. You can throw it over jeans and a sweater or layer it over a dress for an elevated but effortless look.
5. Neutral Knit Sweater
Sezane
Lucas Jumper
$145
Sweaters are my thing. I love a good low-neck sweater because it’s flattering without trying too hard. A neutral knit sweater is perfect for layering—you can tuck it into jeans, throw it over a dress, or pair it with a midi skirt. The key is to find one that’s soft but not too heavy. And a French tuck? Always a yes.
6. A Dress That Flatters Your Body Shape
Meshki
Halter Mini Dress
$145
I’m not recommending a little black dress because honestly, I don’t even wear them. But you do need a dress that makes you feel amazing. Meshki has some of the best options right now—burgundy, black, even jewel tones. The cuts are designed to flatter your natural shape, which makes all the difference. Find one that works with your body and makes you feel confident—you’ll thank me later.
7. Comfortable Yet Chic Flats
Madewell
The Simone Kitten-Heel Slingback Pumps
$148.00
In high school, I had flats in every color. But then I moved to Chicago and realized that most flats are terrible for walking. Plus, somewhere along the line, the idea that you weren’t a grown woman unless you were wearing heels kind of stuck with me. Now? I’m team flats. Loafers, slides, ballet flats—they’re back, and they’re better. If you’re walking a lot, you need comfortable options that still look chic. I covered 16 of my favorites in a separate post, but these ones I’m linking are perfect for everyday wear.
8. A Power Suit
Sezane
khaki gingham Jacket
$245
In your 30s, you’re probably doing more grown-woman things—work events, professional meetings, maybe even a wedding or two where you need to look polished. A good power suit is a must-have. And the best part? You don’t have to wear the pieces together. You can mix and match the blazer with jeans or pair the trousers with a sweater. It’s an instant confidence boost.
9. Structured Tote Bag
Cuyana
System Tote 16-inch
$348
Let me tell you—nothing says “I’ve got it together” like a structured tote bag. I’m all about a simple, roomy tote that can hold my laptop, a notebook, and maybe even a snack or two. The one I’m linking to on Amazon is my go-to—it’s sturdy, it looks expensive (without the price tag), and it fits everything without feeling bulky.
10. Statement Blouse
Sezane
Odelia Blouse
$145
A statement blouse is one of those pieces that works year-round. In the summer, pair it with tailored shorts or wide-leg trousers. In the winter, tuck it into jeans and layer it under a blazer. You don’t need more than one or two, but having one with an interesting neckline or detail makes a basic outfit feel fresh.
11. Everyday Sneakers
Adidas
Samba Decon Shoes
$150
If you’ve been sleeping on Adidas Sambas, you’re missing out. They’re comfortable, cute, and versatile. I’ve seen them in cheetah print, burgundy, green, white—the options are endless. Pair them with jeans, a midi skirt, or even a dress. They’re one of those essentials that feel cool without trying too hard.
12. Midi Skirt
Sezane
Black Midi Skirt
$150
A midi skirt is the ultimate in-between piece. It works casually with a t-shirt or more dressed up with a blouse. Neutrals like black, beige, or navy are always safe bets, but if you’re feeling bold, try a subtle pattern or texture. It’s the kind of piece that works for any season.
13. Matching Set
Amazon
2 Piece Outfits Casual Lapel Half Zip Sweatshirt
$60.99
I don’t even need to explain this one—matching sets are a no-brainer. Whether it’s a knit set for lounging or a tailored set for running errands, you need one. They make you look instantly put together with zero effort. Just throw on some sneakers or flats, and you’re good to go.
14. High-Quality Undergarments
Athleta
$49
Buttery-soft compression for low-impact support.
If your bra and underwear don’t fit right, nothing else will look good. Investing in a good bra and seamless underwear changes everything. It’s worth getting fitted and finding something that works with your body because it makes such a difference in how your clothes sit.
15. Versatile Accessories
Mejuri
Tube Huggie Hoops
$48
I keep it simple when it comes to accessories. A pair of gold hoops, a few rings, and my Apple Watch are my go-to pieces. I don’t want to have to think about taking my jewelry off every day, so I love pieces that are timeless and low-maintenance. Bonus points if you find a cute Apple Watch band to dress it up.
Ps. If you enjoyed this article and want the complete checklist you can access it here!
Photo by Afeez Ajibola Yusuf
Now that I’m in my 30s, my approach to fashion has definitely shifted. I’m not trying to dress “older,” but I do want to feel more put together and refined. Gone are the days of loading up on five t-shirts for $20 at Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and Wet Seal—only to have them fall apart after a few washes. Back in my 20s, the idea of wearing the same outfit multiple times felt kind of cringe (because heaven forbid someone actually remembers your outfit). But now? I’m all about building a wardrobe with pieces I actually want to repeat—ones that work effortlessly with the rest of my closet.These days, I’m drawn to more tailored, neutral pieces that I can mix and match with jewelry, hats, and shoes. Capsule wardrobes are everywhere now, and I finally get why: investing in quality staples makes getting dressed so much easier. If you’ve hit that point where you’re over fast fashion but still want to feel stylish (without looking too mature), you’re in the right place. I’ve put together a list of 15 wardrobe essentials every woman in her 30s should own—pieces that will make getting dressed feel easy, stylish, and totally grown-up (in the best way).Ready to build your 30s wardrobe? Download our free 30s Wardrobe Checklist to keep track of your essentials.
15 Wardrobe Essentials for Women in Their 30s
1. The Perfect White Button-Down
EverlaneThe Must-Have Shirt in Silky Cotton$88
Add It To Cart!
I used to cringe when someone would recommend a white button-down. Why would I wear a stiff, corporate-looking shirt on a casual day? The problem wasn’t the idea of a white button-down—it was the quality of the ones I’d been buying. Polyester and other cheap fabrics make them feel stiff and uncomfortable, but once I discovered linen and high-quality cotton options, my whole perspective changed. A white button-down made from the right material feels light, breathable, and relaxed—not stuffy. And if you’re not looking to splurge on a high-end one, thrift stores are goldmines for this. Pre-worn button-downs often have that perfect lived-in feel, making them even better. This one I’m linking to is my current favorite—you can tuck it into jeans, wear it open over a crop top and trousers, or layer it under a blazer. It’s one of those pieces that just works.2. Classic Oversized Blazer
GapBrushed Twill Relaxed Blazer$128.00
Add It To Cart!
I’ve always been a blazer girl—especially after moving to Chicago almost 20 years ago. My friend and I used to hit up Wicker Park and grab every vintage blazer we could find. You could get them boxy with shoulder pads or more tailored—it didn’t matter. A good blazer just makes you feel put together. In 2025, oversized tailored blazers are it. You can throw one over jeans and a sports bra for a casual yet polished vibe or pair it with heels for a night out. And honestly, I love that we live in an era where you can wear a blazer with Adidas Sambas and it just works. This one I’m linking is the perfect blend of structure and ease—trust me, you’ll wear it on repeat.3. High-Quality Denim
AbercrombieCurve Love High Rise 90s Relaxed Jean$90
Add It To Cart!
Remember when skinny jeans were the thing? Yeah, me too. I swore I’d never wear anything but skinny jeans—but now, at 33, girl, toss out those skinny jeans. Wide-leg denim is the move. They’re more forgiving, they skim over your midsection, and they look good with everything from heels to sneakers. If you’ve got a “mom body” or you’re dealing with a little muffin top, wide-leg jeans are a game-changer. My top picks? Abercrombie and Old Navy for affordable, stretchy options, and Good American if you want that premium fit. Wear them with heels for a night out or sneakers for an everyday vibe.4. Timeless Trench Coat
Amazon Crop Double Breasted Trench Coat$65.98
Add It to Cart!
Okay, so here’s the thing about trench coats: If you live somewhere with unpredictable weather (hello, Chicago), a lightweight trench coat is tricky because it’s either too hot or too cold. But I recently bought one from Amazon, and I’m so glad I did. When I wear my puffer coat, I feel practical—but when I wear my trench coat, I feel chic. A black or tan trench coat elevates any outfit instantly. You can throw it over jeans and a sweater or layer it over a dress for an elevated but effortless look.5. Neutral Knit Sweater
Sezane Lucas Jumper$145
Add It To Cart!
Sweaters are my thing. I love a good low-neck sweater because it’s flattering without trying too hard. A neutral knit sweater is perfect for layering—you can tuck it into jeans, throw it over a dress, or pair it with a midi skirt. The key is to find one that’s soft but not too heavy. And a French tuck? Always a yes.6. A Dress That Flatters Your Body Shape
MeshkiHalter Mini Dress$145
Add It To Cart!
I’m not recommending a little black dress because honestly, I don’t even wear them. But you do need a dress that makes you feel amazing. Meshki has some of the best options right now—burgundy, black, even jewel tones. The cuts are designed to flatter your natural shape, which makes all the difference. Find one that works with your body and makes you feel confident—you’ll thank me later.7. Comfortable Yet Chic Flats
MadewellThe Simone Kitten-Heel Slingback Pumps$148.00
Add It To Cart!
In high school, I had flats in every color. But then I moved to Chicago and realized that most flats are terrible for walking. Plus, somewhere along the line, the idea that you weren’t a grown woman unless you were wearing heels kind of stuck with me. Now? I’m team flats. Loafers, slides, ballet flats—they’re back, and they’re better. If you’re walking a lot, you need comfortable options that still look chic. I covered 16 of my favorites in a separate post, but these ones I’m linking are perfect for everyday wear.8. A Power Suit
Sezanekhaki gingham Jacket$245
Add It To Cart!
In your 30s, you’re probably doing more grown-woman things—work events, professional meetings, maybe even a wedding or two where you need to look polished. A good power suit is a must-have. And the best part? You don’t have to wear the pieces together. You can mix and match the blazer with jeans or pair the trousers with a sweater. It’s an instant confidence boost.9. Structured Tote Bag
CuyanaSystem Tote 16-inch$348
Add It To Cart!
Let me tell you—nothing says “I’ve got it together” like a structured tote bag. I’m all about a simple, roomy tote that can hold my laptop, a notebook, and maybe even a snack or two. The one I’m linking to on Amazon is my go-to—it’s sturdy, it looks expensive (without the price tag), and it fits everything without feeling bulky.10. Statement Blouse
SezaneOdelia Blouse$145
Add It To Cart!
A statement blouse is one of those pieces that works year-round. In the summer, pair it with tailored shorts or wide-leg trousers. In the winter, tuck it into jeans and layer it under a blazer. You don’t need more than one or two, but having one with an interesting neckline or detail makes a basic outfit feel fresh.11. Everyday Sneakers
AdidasSamba Decon Shoes$150
Add It To Cart!
If you’ve been sleeping on Adidas Sambas, you’re missing out. They’re comfortable, cute, and versatile. I’ve seen them in cheetah print, burgundy, green, white—the options are endless. Pair them with jeans, a midi skirt, or even a dress. They’re one of those essentials that feel cool without trying too hard.12. Midi Skirt
SezaneBlack Midi Skirt$150
Add It To Cart!
A midi skirt is the ultimate in-between piece. It works casually with a t-shirt or more dressed up with a blouse. Neutrals like black, beige, or navy are always safe bets, but if you’re feeling bold, try a subtle pattern or texture. It’s the kind of piece that works for any season.13. Matching Set
Amazon2 Piece Outfits Casual Lapel Half Zip Sweatshirt$60.99
Add It To Cart!
I don’t even need to explain this one—matching sets are a no-brainer. Whether it’s a knit set for lounging or a tailored set for running errands, you need one. They make you look instantly put together with zero effort. Just throw on some sneakers or flats, and you’re good to go.14. High-Quality Undergarments
Athleta$49Buttery-soft compression for low-impact support.
Add It To Cart!
If your bra and underwear don’t fit right, nothing else will look good. Investing in a good bra and seamless underwear changes everything. It’s worth getting fitted and finding something that works with your body because it makes such a difference in how your clothes sit.15. Versatile Accessories
MejuriTube Huggie Hoops$48
Add It to Cart!
I keep it simple when it comes to accessories. A pair of gold hoops, a few rings, and my Apple Watch are my go-to pieces. I don’t want to have to think about taking my jewelry off every day, so I love pieces that are timeless and low-maintenance. Bonus points if you find a cute Apple Watch band to dress it up.
Ps. If you enjoyed this article and want the complete checklist you can access it here!
